Introduction: This is part of series I am entitling, “Stoking the Fire by Using the Rainbow Bridge.”  The general idea is that the colors of the rainbow can be used like stepping stones which help people cross over from a lackluster life to living life fully alive. 

Bonding

The Green Stepping Stone

If a bond is a thing (a noun) in other things fasten themselves around (or attach themselves to), such as people sharing a common interest, than to bond (a verb) is the action of moving towards the shared interest.

Once the fire of desire is built and flamed, then (to my understanding of how the vibrational world works) a signal is sent out from our heart out into the world, similar to a radio signal.  And like radio signals that pass through everything, it is only heard by someone who is tuned into the same signal.   So the desire of the signal sent, has to match–that is where like attracts like and how similar interests help form strong bonded pairs and/or clusters.   With that said (while the desires may match), each pair-bond (or cluster) resembles more puzzle pieces rather than exact matches. When someone has a desire, it is because they feel as though they are lacking or “missing” something; otherwise, there would be no desire.  So when the signal gets sent out, the signal is really searching for a missing puzzle piece. This is what we know is the real world as the Law of magnetism or “opposites attract.”  So the desire has to be a match, but in order for two or more people to truly be brought together something has to be missing.  Another way I see this is your strengths complete and compensate for my weaknesses (or missing pieces) while mine do the same for you.